At this age, age of which many would have thought we have reached maturity, and found more meaning in life. I’ve always believed that your age doesn’t define your maturity, for all we know, there are still 20-something, and 30-somethings adult, whom I bet, have no idea what maturity really means. I bet even I myself, isn’t too sure if I’m one. Maturities aside, let’s move on.

Life is a constant interaction between human beings, the environment, and every single living, or inanimate things. Love, is one part of it. I was pretty much speechless when I realized, how much emphasis is placed upon love, with your special one. I understand, and I know, that Love is a very pure, wonderful feeling. I’ve been in love before, and I know the hurt it brings, and above all, the happiness it brings. But I guess, the one thing, that people often get blinded is that, Love with your special one, is what the world evolves around. It doesn’t have to be this way.

You see, my idea of love is that, love doesn’t have to be specifically with that special someone. Love can be those of you share with your family, friends, and everything else. You’d probably tell me it is completely different. But at the end of the day, when you lose any of the mentioned above, it’ll crush you just the same. And most importantly, love isn’t about possession, or having that someone. Love is a simple, beautiful thing. The person I once liked, is now, my best friend, what more can I ask for? So long as we seek the better side of things, and we are contented with what we have, it’s more than enough. We tend to be greedy, wanting to have it all, but fact is, we can never have it all. We got to lose some, and gain some. If something doesn’t happen, then probably something better is in store for us. It is pointless, to go through the same hurtful phase over and over. Live and let go, better days are ahead, we just got to have some faith. Falling in and out of love is part and parcel of life, never life itself. There is so much more ways for us to give our attention, our energies, and our tears to. Easier said than done, but give it a try, before we even say, its hard.

I’m 20, and as much as it seems as if I’m desperately seeking someone to be with, to fall in love with, to make me feel special etc., truth is, I’m doing very well on my own, thank you. I have awesome friends and at this point, they are all i need.